After the “friends with benefits” are Gone

It has been 5 months or so since I engaged in sexytimes.   I like sex.  Just not so much that I’ll associate with the men with whom I used to have sexual relations.   These men were not “boyfriends,” just that old cliché’  known as  “friends with benefits.”  During my 20s, these faux relationships seemed worth it, since I didnt…

Life Continues

That pretty much says it all doesnt it? I spent the day spring cleaning. It feels good to let go of crap. Why do I wait so long to remember this absolute fact? It’s all so symbolic of the past self-induced mental anguish I put myself through instead of letting go of people and things…

Staying Single: It’s Easy!

I wouldn’t mind having someone around who didn’t end up driving me nuts after a few days. My own personal theory is marry someone whom possesses character traits you enjoy. Can you go on a 2 week vacation with this person and not be bored/stressed/infuriated? That is the question. If you are not a commitment-phobe…

Relax, Bitch

This post may as well be titled “Lessons in People Skills , courtesy of my Room mate,” but going that far seems petty. oversesitive –adjective : excessively or unduly sensitive. Over the years, I’ve heard men make the same remark : women get too serious as they get older. Not all women, but it’s easy…

Never Trust a Man Wearing Italian Leather Shoes

Well, it has been a few years since I blogged a little peice called: “Never Marry a Man Who Has No Friends” . Besides being one of my most ‘popular’ posts, it is advice which I believe in more than ever. But wait! There’s more! *Never trust a man wearing Italian Leather Shoes. Until he…

Interesting tidbit.

This weekend, a male friend told me he was ‘damaged’ and would forever be a ‘bad boy.” I’ve blogged about this before. For those ‘good boys,’ they seem to find the ‘bad boy’ dilemma as perplexing as women find cellulite.

In RETROSPECT

This coming June, I turn the big 3-0; I’ve learned a lot in my twenties.   The years were difficult most of the time.  Here are some lessons I learned…the hard way.     “When life is hard, you have to change.” — Thank you, Blind Melon.  I gave away my only Blind Melon cd at a gas station…

The “Bad Boy” Syndrome

Do I want to blog about this topic?  not really.  Does this topic need to be blogged about?  yes.   Male friends sometimes say to me, “I’m sick of the games women play.  Everytime I’m nice I get walked on.  I did everything she wanted and she dumped me.  I’m done with that.   I’m gonna be a…

You get a 2 for being so ugly on the inside

Earlier this week, I exchanged words with a mediocre blogger on Myspace. The problem, was this guy got too big for his britches after he collected a few subscriptions, tried to be the next Tucker Max, took it to the next level and got mean, and currently is losing steam (and readers) because of all…